Breaking the Taboo: 5 Insights To Loving Your Second Baby Less

It’s a taboo topic that few parents dare to discuss – loving their second child less. As a society, we often assume that parents must love all their children equally. However, the truth is that many parents experience a shift in their feelings toward their second child, and it’s a complex issue that deserves attention.

These are five insights from the forum into this taboo topic, breaking down the barriers and starting an open conversation about a difficult subject.

Breaking the Taboo: 5 Insights To Loving Your Second Baby Less

Child number two doesn’t engender that same emotion and perspective shift because you’re already in self-sacrifice mode, so it feels like you aren’t bonding with them.

1. Adjusting to the Arrival of the Second Child

Another person advised parents to keep in mind that they don’t know his personality yet. It takes a while for that to emerge. Once he starts responding to you (like smiling) and his character comes out, things will change.

2. Personality Takes Time To Emerge

The second child is always more demanding. After all, you’re doing all the newborn stuff on even less sleep because you have another child that needs your energy. So, you have less time for everything in general. It’s very normal to feel less connected.

3. Less Time, Less Sleep, and Less Connection

Postpartum anxiety and depression can affect men too. When babies are new and tiny, crying and pooping are common. However, constantly comparing your experience to others can steal away your joy. If you feel irritable or regretful later on, don’t hesitate to contact your doctor. 

4. PPA/PPD

 The first year is so hard. When they are older, you can play together, you guys can do fun family outings, and you’ll be overwhelmed with new emotions.

5. The First Year Is Survival Mode

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