Ever considered what it might be like to date… yourself? Imagine the endless pizza nights and inside jokes! It sounds pretty great at first glance, right? However, not everyone holds themselves in such high dating esteem. In a refreshingly honest online discussion, individuals courageously shared their personal reasons for steering clear of a romantic rendezvous with themselves.
Curious to know what they said? We’ve rounded up 5 of these insightful reflections right here for you to explore. Let’s jump straight into their world of self-reflection and discovery!
Not very many people can stand clingy individuals. Having personal space feels good sometimes. If your partner is always around, it can make you irritated eventually. Even if you don’t hate clinginess, there’s a limit.
There are people out there who’d date someone who may not fit conventional beauty standards but maintains good hygiene and a healthy weight. However, fewer people would be willing to date someone who looks “good” but is overweight and has terrible hygiene.
Imagine someone who is either impulsive or indecisive. They either make dumb decisions based on their feelings or don’t make any because of overthinking. Now, imagine two people with these contrasting traits together.
While getting attention in a relationship is essential, dealing with an overly attention-seeking partner can be exhausting. Now, picture two attention-seekers trying to outshine each other in a relationship.
How can someone love you if you don’t love yourself? Imagine someone asks, “Why aren’t you dating?” and you reply, “Well, have you met this guy I don’t like very much?” (points to self).