I am all for butterflies and whatever in a relationship, but when that overtakes logic, things go downhill. An individual asked this question in an online community, and here’s what contributors wrote.
A recent divorcee shares that their former partner always asked them to communicate better. However, whenever he brought up an issue, she always had a reason, explaining why she wasn’t the issue.
Another responder states they underwent a make-up and break-up face fifteen years ago. Their mom told them it was toxic, but they got mad that she couldn’t understand they were meant to be together.
Someone adds that it’s a red flag when a partner insists they must fight in a relationship to show passion. They’ve never had to deal with this, but their friend insisted on this, and they were mortified about her relationship.
One should be comfortable spending time alone or with other people. Couples could have many hobbies in common, but the different ones foster individuality.