One of my greatest fears is being the neighbor that never shuts up. I enjoy conversation, so I’m susceptible to falling into this habit. To keep it in check, I ignore everyone.
It’s not the best way to deal with it, but it works. An internet user asked for ways to deal with chatty neighbors, and here are some solutions that people offered.
Someone says it’s great to have a friendly relationship with your neighbors. Keep the chats light. If they ask personal questions, tell them politely you’d rather not talk about that. Acting standoffish is unnecessary.
Most times, people ask questions so they can tell you more about themselves. An individual advises that you give quick answers and revert the question. Instead, give general answers like, “Oh, I’m just like everyone else. What about you?”
The interaction could help you acquire a new friend, or you may discover you don’t click. Your neighbor may be the first to notice your house is on fire or being robbed. There are also different reasons why people are talkative. Some are nosey, while others are genuinely interested.
One responder adds that their guardians taught them to be polite to the point of lying. If you say you’re not interested in conversation, that may make them feel bad. You can devise a lie like you need to get to an appointment. This always works with strangers.
A person who asks too many questions explains that their interest is genuine and would appreciate people letting them know when they’re too intrusive. When they are worried the questions are too personal, they give people an easy out.