5 Obvious Signs That You Should NEVER Become a Parent

Are you currently debating having children? Many people regard being a parent as one of life’s last true joys, while others want nothing to do with raising a child! However, there are some people out there who should not be raising kids, no matter how much they want to.

Recently, men and women met in an online discussion to reveal everything that screams, “This person should never have kids!”

Obvious Signs That You Should NEVER Become a Parent

Sometimes the most obvious signs are ignored the most. If you hate kids and aren’t ashamed to let others know, please do the rest of the world a favor and never become a parent.

1. You Hate Children

Bringing a child into the world will not save a doomed relationship or marriage – don’t trick yourself into thinking it can! “Don’t have children if you’d be doing it in the hopes of saving or advancing your relationship — or if you wish to compensate for perceived lack of personal achievements,” advises one man.

2. If You Want a Child To “Save” Your Relationship

Logically, how can a person care for a child if they have difficulty caring for themselves? Sometimes, it’s okay to be selfish — kids don’t come with an instruction manual, and raising them can be daunting.

3. If You Can’t Take Care of Yourself

“Don’t do it if you view your future child as a mold in which you can shape, alter, and control, pinning all of your failed aspirations and ambitions on them and forcing them to be something they are not,” reveals one woman.

4. You View a Potential Child as Moldable

As stated earlier, it’s okay not to want kids — furthermore, it’s okay to be on the fence about them! Men and women agree that if you a person isn’t 100% sure about being a parent, that’s usually an indicator that they shouldn’t become a parent.

5. If You Aren’t 100% Sure You Want Them

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