It’d have saved me a few heartbreaks if an older woman had told me I needed to love myself before seeking love from others. An internet user asked older men in an online community to share relationship gems. Here are their best answers.
Have you ever heard of due diligence before getting married? Somebody suggests that although it may seem selfish, look into a woman’s family before marrying. Her family will be your in-laws.
Just because you’re in a committed relationship with an individual doesn’t mean they’re in it with you. A person replies that you cannot assume your partner has decided to be monogamous. This needs to be a discussion where you both decide to be exclusive.
Finally, another man advises men to form friendships with women. Not the type of friends you’d want to get with later, but ones you can be open and vulnerable with. You’ll benefit from different perspectives and get the best wingmen.
An older gentleman says it hurts when a relationship ends on bad terms. It’s even worse if there’s something you could’ve done, and she’s a beauty. The best thing is to keep it moving, and they’d never get back with their ex as they’re incompatible.
Way too many people confuse infatuation with love. A commenter believes that everyone feels intensely infatuated with their partner at some point, and it’s a good feeling. It’s okay, but don’t confuse it with love.