In the world of romance, there are times when love is declared unexpectedly, catching you off guard. Imagine this: someone gazes into your eyes, emotions brimming, and utters, “I love you."
But what if you’re not ready to say it back? Your heart races, your mind scrambles for words. It’s a common dilemma, often leaving you flustered. Don’t worry, though! We’ve got you covered.
Sometimes, the best thing to do is to roll with it. If you’re not there yet but feel you’ll get there eventually, just say it. I say this as a woman; only a few women can understand that you’re not saying it back.
Interestingly, many recommend saying, “I think you are awesome, and we are reading the same book, but I am a couple of pages behind you.” You can try this, but only if you hate to play it safe. It can go both ways for you.
The problem isn’t that you don’t love her; you’re sure you can give your life up for her. However, saying you love her would require a level of commitment you need to prepare for in your relationship.
Whether it’s I “wolf” you, like the Quinn-Goldbergs in You, or “I’m in lesbians with you” from Scott Pilgrim, find a safe word to use until you’re comfortable enough to bring out the big gun.