Running Into an Old Enemy? Here’s How To Handle the Situation With Grace

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Life’s not all of love and light. In the same way, we make friends, we make foes. Some sworn enemies we hope never to see again. So what happens when you walk into an adversary from your past unannounced, with memories of their undoings replaying before you like the vivid recap of your favorite movie scene?

How do you not lurch at them or make a scene even when you still feel bad about how you were treated? An online community of mature minds offers some respite on navigating an encounter with an old foe with poise and dignity, so you come out feeling empowered like the bigger person you are.

Running Into an Old Enemy? 

The tendency of things heating up quickly when you run into an old enemy exists, but it pays to stay calm to avoid any potential escalation one user suggests.

Stay Calm

The world is your oyster, and every encounter is yours to control. You’ll likely feel awkward or even angry at the sight of an old enemy, but taking charge by not allowing their presence to affect your mood, tone, or purpose is the way to come out of the space feeling victorious.

Take Charge of the Scene

“Minimize interactions and avoid talking about the cause of your previous conflict as that could result in blame games,” he concludes.

Avoid Confrontation

“Protesting with your eyes immediately puts you at a disadvantage. It makes the said enemy feel they still have a hold on you. A little smile, however, can make them really uncomfortable without you raising an eyelid.”

You Don’t Need the Dirty Looks

“Listening is more rewarding than talking most times. It’s how I navigate such murky waters. A listener cannot offend.”

Be an Active Listener

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