The Rising Trend of Keeping Dads Out

Giving Birth Gets Controversial

Motherhood transforms a woman’s life in countless, profound ways, filled with a whirlwind of emotions and unforgettable moments. The realization of a new life blossoming within brings a surge of joy and wonder, capturing the hearts of expectant parents.

Sometimes, hidden tensions and unresolved conflicts can dim the light of this significant life event. While it’s crucial to honor and support the woman through her vulnerable journey of childbirth, addressing disagreements with empathy and thoughtful communication is equally important for both partners.

Nearing Due Date

The pregnancy had been difficult for Emily, with Andrew praying for both Emily and the baby to make it through the pregnancy, as she had had a few miscarriages in the past. It was a trying time for both Andrew and Emily, with the stress and excitement weighing on them both.

With Emily’s mother set to be present while she gave birth, Andrew could understand why she needed her mom to be with her, but a large part of him wanted to be there when the baby’s first cries were heard. He wanted to be the first to hold his baby.

Emily’s Decision

Still, Emily had been quite condescending towards him right after the conversation. Emily got even more angry as Andrew tried to process that he wouldn’t be in the room as he had always wanted. She said he had a “beaten puppy-dog look,” which upset her.

One Beaten Puppy-Dog

Things got even more heated as Emily began scolding Andrew over his desire to be there, asking him if he would act so weakly in front of their son. Finally, with more than a handful of swear words, she asked Andrew to get over it.

Andrew understands she’s stressed from the whole thing and probably doesn’t mean it, but her words still hurt him and nearly brought him to tears. All he cares about is the safety of his wife and child, and he would like to know if he handled things right.

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