Is It Wrong That I Controlled Portion Sizes of My Daughter’s Overweight Friend?

Health is one of the most critical aspects of human existence; people often look out for others, especially children, in terms of health. They make opinions and decisions they think are in that person’s best interest. 

Obesity 

“Obesity” is another health-related subject that has led to high controversy today. The truth is, even though we may only have a person’s best interest at heart, we should let them decide what’s good for them, especially regarding their — or their children’s — health.

Mandy’s nine-year-old daughter, Lily, had a sleepover birthday party with five close friends, including Tina, who’s also nine. A scenario like that would undoubtedly be a handful for any adult at a party with five kids.

The Sleepover Birthday Party 

Tina is “significantly overweight and well on her way to becoming obese.” Mandy’s words, not ours. Mandy has noticed that her parents, who are both overweight, have not taught her proper nutrition and portion control. 

Tina

She’s always the first to reach for a cookie or donut and “consumes” three times as much as most kids her age. A girl’s got to eat, eh? While most would hardly see this as a cause for concern because she’s, well, nine, childhood habits can often be impossible to curb.

Mandy monitored Tina’s portions and nutrition at the sleepover party as much as possible. We didn’t call her the food police for no reason. 

Mandy, The Food Police 

They ordered pizza for dinner, and she imposed a “two-slice” limit. She knew none of Lily’s friends would ask for more — none except Tina, of course. A trap? More like a calculated move.

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