6 Romantic Myths Movies Sold Us (And We Bought)

MOVIES

The silver screen paints a picture of love that’s filled with grand gestures, serendipitous meetings, and rain-soaked kisses. But how often does reality mirror these cinematic moments? As it turns out, real-life romance isn’t always as straightforward as Hollywood would have us believe.

We uncover the myths and misconceptions that movies have spun about love, as described by real people. Before you plan that dramatic airport chase, let’s debunk some of the most pervasive romantic tropes.

Among other oversimplifications is the idea of love being a great thing in all situations. But, as many folks mention, love is painful as well. It can hurt, especially when the person you love doesn’t reciprocate. Ouch.

Rainbows and Butterflies

I’ll throw my hands up if one more rom-com ends with a happily ever after. As a user rightly points out, relationships are more complex. There is no grand ending.

Happily Ever After

Movies and shows are notorious for making viewers think that love is easy. As many folks point out, real life is far from easy. Romance will not fall into your lap. If you want it, you’ve got to work for it! So, roll up your sleeves.

Easy Love

Another misconception regarding love in movies is its permanence. Finding love once won’t make it last forever. Additionally, a person mentions that it’s wrong to think love will come to those who wait. If you wait too late, you might miss your chance!

Everlasting Romance

It can be tempting to interrupt your ex’s wedding to steal the show, but I promise, it will not go how you think it will. One person narrates how some girl interrupted a friend’s wedding as a joke. Even so, everyone turned around in confusion, causing her humiliation. Save yourself the embarrassment.

Wedding Crasher

Most pop culture media glorify young love. It’s almost as if not marrying your high school sweetheart makes you lose in life. The sad part, as someone mentions, is the impact on one’s self-esteem if they didn’t date as a teen.

Now Or Never

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