Health and well-being are paramount in our lives, often prompting us to make decisions for those we care about, especially the young and vulnerable. The topic of “obesity” has become a lightning rod for debate and concern.
“Obesity” is another health-related subject that has led to high controversy today. The truth is, even though we may only have a person’s best interest at heart, we should let them decide what’s good for them, especially regarding their — or their children’s — health.
Mandy’s nine-year-old daughter, Lily, had a sleepover birthday party with five close friends, including Tina, who’s also nine. A scenario like that would undoubtedly be a handful for any adult at a party with five kids.
Tina is “significantly overweight and well on her way to becoming obese.” Mandy’s words, not ours. Mandy has noticed that her parents, who are both overweight, have not taught her proper nutrition and portion control.
For the cake, Mandy cut everyone a small piece. Again, this was not a problem for anyone else but Tina, who was upset and on the verge of tears. She imposed a similar limit for breakfast, which did not go down well.
Mandy understood it would be a problem if she let everyone else eat whatever they wanted and only limited Tina’s portions. However, that was not the case — Tina was just the only one who tried to exceed the limits.