5 Pains That Stick with Them Forever

Trials of a Male

Growing up can be tough, especially for boys who often face a unique set of challenges as they transition to manhood. Behind the typical “boys will be boys” attitude lies a world of complex experiences.

In this article, we delve into ten powerful stories that reveal the true depth of what it means to grow up male, shedding light on the often hidden difficulties of boyhood.

Trials of Growing Up Male

They’re on top of the world, and then suddenly, a breakup, being cut from the basketball team, a fight, or an embarrassing moment makes you realize that you’re not the big man on campus you thought you were.

Realizing You’re Not at the Top of the Pecking Order

Once puberty hits, it’s an ongoing, near-constant battle between uncontrollable urges and the constraints of social etiquette. Guys know what I’m talking about. We don’t need to elaborate any further.

The Relentless Hormones

Trying to navigate schools’ fighting policies while standing up for oneself is a common issue when growing up a guy.

Anti-Fighting Policies

When the teacher or coach pulls you aside and gives the “you’re a natural leader” talk, it may be flattering at first. Then you realize that “leadership” means staying late after practice or being expected to behave yourself in class.

Being Thrust Unwillingly Into Leadership Positions

There’s a reason so many bright, otherwise-motivated young men can’t stand sitting in lectures 8 hours a day, five days a week. It goes against every fiber of their being.

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