5 Red Flags That Someone’s ‘Niceness’ Is a Dangerous Deception

In a world filled with diverse personalities, distinguishing genuine kindness from hidden malice can be a daunting task. Some individuals master the art of wearing a mask of niceness, skillfully concealing their true intentions. But beneath the surface, subtle signs can betray their act.

Dive in as we unveil the telltale traits of those who might be masquerading their ill intentions behind a facade of friendliness.

Red Flags That Someone’s ‘Niceness’ Is a Dangerous Deception

“Complaining about not being rewarded for being nice” is our first commenter’s offering. “If you’re genuinely nice, you do nice things for the sake of doing them.” We have all met that person — being nice is not a skill; it is ingrained in good people.

1. I Did A Thing For You!

Someone feels those who brag the loudest are usually not confident about the things they perpetuate. “People’s attributes tend to speak for themselves,” warns an observer, “and I find the people who make a big deal about it are the most insecure about those specific attributes.” 

2. Being Insecure

“I notice that most people who pretend to be X are actually not X,” says a cryptic thread member. I agree that we are surrounded by pretenders who need too much self-reassurance.

3. Overplaying Their Role

When you meet someone for the first time, they might reveal lots about themselves — almost too much. “Letting you know about their life/relationships by the first time you know them,” explains a cynical observer, “talking bad about their friends to you.”

4. Too Much Information Too Soon

“A person who lies for no reason is not a good person,” warns someone who probably has much experience with truth-benders. “They cannot be trusted.”

5. Pants on Fire

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