Marriage can be tough to deal with sometimes. There are rainy days and sunny days, but what makes it better is knowing that no matter what one is going through, they are not going through it alone.
OP never gets to leave the house. She’s truly the definition of a stay-at-home mom. It’s so bad that she rarely gets the opportunity to take a bath every day.
She thinks if the kids were a little older and he spent more time with them, she wouldn’t mind so much. But she’s drowning mentally and physically, and he’s planning a trip to a bachelor’s party.
To think that he would be doing that while she was on the brink of sanity, struggling to take care of their kids must hurt a lot.
She doesn’t want him to go, but she’s not sure if she would be a bad person to ask him not to.
Everyone is on OP’s side. They think her husband would be a bad person to do what he’s planning to, and they’re certainly not holding back in their responses.